A dense exploration of the ‘Self’ and the ‘self’ and how those two separate psychological state experiences are the basis for our choice to immerse in life or to withdraw from it – the choice presented by every spiritual practice without ever being stated properly or clearly. To be HERE or to go THERE is under your control once you see it. That may be the most transformative shift of all.
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I AM: TINC #4
How an abused parent showed me the path to self-ownership, self-responsibility, and an integration with the deeper self that is revealed in a stopped mind. I am and you are and we get to share this life but you don’t own me and I don’t own you and we are best served by doing what we want with each other rather than for each other.
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EJACULATORY WITHOLDING: TINC #3
In the least likely event of my life I discovered in 2004 that giving up ejaculatory orgasms while maintaining an active sex life leads to sexual pleasure and body energy increases beyond imagining. This is the story of how it came to be, how it impacts me 20 years later, and how women can experience it too.
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A KUNDALINI THRESHOLD EVENT: TINC#2
My Kundalini rose while doing a Scientology style process as I was driving on the Beltway in Washington DC in 1997. This is a short but detailed description of what happened, what it was like, and how it impacts me today, still informing and driving everything I do.
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MIND STOP: TINC #1
You really can stop your mind. And you should. My mind stopped in my second formal meditation sit in 2004. The story is entertaining, the outcome transformative. I transcended – went across – myself, discovering what was on the other side. Until your mind has stopped you don’t know who or what you are or who or what the world is. After it has stopped you are not enlightened but you are surely more enlightened than you were before it happened. It informs everything you do, which is why I’m telling the story.